Christians - you say you're offended when I put down your beliefs...?

I am a christian and I don't go to people and tell them that. I think that as christians we want everyone to be saved but we want it so bad we try to force it. My fiance is on the fence about the Christianity thing but I know I cant force it on him if he is going to come to got it will have to be voluntarily. I think sometimes people forget that they just want to help. So even though it is a mean thing to say to someone actually they are trying to warn u of what might happen. Try not to be offended I dont like when they say it either.